Barrier to Women Empowerment Vs. Men
Men and women are equal, but not the same. Each has its own standing and limit. Each one is beautiful when cupped in their limits. There are a number of reasons that cut women’s abilities to a dead end. Both the sex are equal in their areas of work, food, clothing styles, sleeping habits, and living habits, but the problem arises the moment we confuse the sex with a gender! Gender is not sex. There is a difference between the two. Sex is the biological birth of a person with specific reproductive organs and make-up and gender is the set of attitudes and trimming of duties that this society has assigned to each of the genders. The society does not expect cooking in the kitchen by the male gender and sleeping of a working lady at home! Why? Was she not working in the office like men? Why then she is not allowed to enjoy the basic human rights: being tired and getting rest. This very negative attitude of the society and sadly it’s the women who are responsible for creating barriers in the empowerment of the other women.
The second leading cause of women caging is that women themselves feel inferior to men and tries to do exactly the same what men are doing! The point that needs to be understood here is that we cannot put dirty clothes in the fridge for cleanliness, likewise, we cannot cube the ice in the washing machine. Both the machines are from the same company and are equal in their functions, but they are not the same! The same goes for men and women. Wearing men’s’ clothes, shoes, copying their style of walking and sitting or talking does not and will never transform female sex to male sex. It’s always the women who teach men, who bring them to this world, who train them. Point to be noted in this article is that it’s not the barrier between men to women, but women to women. You heard me right. Males are just the byproduct of what a mother, a sister and a wife made them into!